5 Things to Do Immediately After Overeating to Feel Better
Desperate to feel better and get back on track? Here’s what to do after overeating.
All those cookies! Barely a crumb is left. Her belly aches as she shamefully changes into her stretchy pants. Her fingers still feel greasy from all that butter and chocolate. But what makes her feel worse than anything else? Guilt.
I remember when I thought a fast-food lunch topped off with a double scoop of Baskin and Robbins was a personal weakness. And I hate to admit it, but I even remember when those horrible feelings of shame led me to chips or cookies after the last spoonful of ice cream.
From both personal and professional experience, I know that what happens after the episode of overeating is more important than what and how much you actually ate.
Here’s what to do after overeating
You’ll feel so much better! And you’ll get right back on the healthy eating wagon.
- Identify the facts. Even though your head tells you you’re “incapable of sticking to a healthy eating plan,” or “you’ll always have high blood sugar,” or you’re “too weak to eat a cookie without scarfing down an entire pan,” recognize that your head is speaking to you with emotions, not facts. And thoughts are not facts.
What are the facts?
- You ate more than you planned and more than is good for you.
- One over-indulgence – even an all-out eating frenzy – will not undo all of your previous efforts.
- What you ate is unlikely to matter a dot in 3 months or 3 weeks or even in 3 days – as long as you allow yourself to reset now.
- Drop the shame. For some bizarre reason, a lot of people think shame or guilt will move them to action. But we rarely shame ourselves into changing for the better. In fact, I’ve observed the opposite more often than not. If you tell yourself you can’t stick to healthy eating, you’ll believe that you can’t. And you won’t. Shame is such a powerful negative emotion, it might push you to gobble up chips or cookies once you’ve polished off the ice cream. Don’t allow this over-indulgence to catapult you into a cycle of binges. That’s not what to do after overeating.
- You will not shame yourself into changing.
- Practice kindness. Talk to yourself like you’d talk to a friend, sister, spouse or even to a stranger feeling emotional pain. When you pretend it’s someone else who just overate, you give yourself the mental space for rational instead of emotional thought. What would say? Probably something like this: “Ouch, I know you hate it when you stray from your goals. We all do it, and we feel awful. Getting back on track is the best path forward.” But not this: “OMG, what’s wrong with you? Why can’t you ever do what you know you is right?”
- Remember: You will not shame yourself into changing. For that matter, you won’t shame anyone else into changing either.
- Reset asap. Not tomorrow and certainly not Monday. Right now. Do not try to compensate with extra exercise, restrictive eating plans or weird greenish brown juice.
- Plan your next healthy meal.
- Take a brief walk or meditate to set your mind straight.
- Recite your mantra such as “I learn from my mistakes” or “I cannot change yesterday, but I can change today.”
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- Learn from it. Ask yourself why you ate more than you wanted to and how you can prevent it next time. So often I see people set themselves up for failure instead of setting themselves up for success. One client described the day she teased herself with candy just to see how far she could push herself. She found out, and it wasn’t as far as she’d hoped. Others leave cookies on the counter instead of the pantry – or even better, the freezer. Your why might be pretty complicated. Maybe you were in a bad mood, felt deprived of your favorite foods, and saw the HOT NOW sign outside your favorite donut shop on your drive home from a meeting that ran late. This list could go on, but the key is to ask yourself what can you do to prevent feeling out of control or full of remorse next time (like not drive by the donut shop and not restrict your diet so much that you feel deprived).
Now that you’ve spoken to yourself with kindness, reset and learned from your mistake, use your next meal to show yourself that you’re back on the healthy eating wagon.
Next time there’s barely a cookie crumb left, it will be because you treated yourself to one or two – not because you cheated.
Not eating perfectly isn’t a personal weakness. And what is perfect anyway?
Cheers to becoming your better self! And knowing what to do after overeating.
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I'm Jill, and I believe simple changes in your mindset and health habits can bring life-changing rewards. And I don't believe in willpower. It's waaaay overrated. As a food-loving registered dietitian nutritionist, certified diabetes care and education specialist and certified health and wellness coach, I've helped thousands of people solve their food and nutrition problems. If you're looking for a better way to master this whole healthy eating/healthy living thing or if you're trying to prevent or manage diabetes or heart problems, you'll find plenty of resources right here.
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Hi there! I'm Jill, a nutrition & diabetes expert and the author of 4 books.
I believe simple changes in health habits can bring you life-changing rewards.
And I believe willpower is way overrated.
Right here is where you can discover the mindset and habits to stick with healthy lifestyle choices most of the time - and drop the guilt when you don't.